Mixed
Attachment style
Your pattern doesn’t fit a single quadrant — and that is information, not a flaw.
Model of self
contested — depends on the day and the bond
Model of the other
contested — trust decided case by case
Light
Flexibility: you don’t run one relational script in every situation.
Shadow
The reading becomes context-sensitive: one pattern with some people, another with others.
In full
Both of your dimensions landed in the middle band — too close to the center to force a quadrant. The model says to state this out loud rather than fake precision: your attachment pattern probably varies by relationship and by phase of life.
Worth noticing: with whom does the abandonment alarm go off? With whom does the wall go up? The fine-grained pattern shows up in conversation — exactly the kind of thing an in-depth interview reads better than any questionnaire.
This is a result of this lens — not a destiny. In the crossing, it gains or loses relief as the other eleven lenses agree with it or pull against it.
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